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72-Hour Stabilization

Lower the temperature

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Written lesson

Lowering the temperature means reducing the number of things that demand a response. Stop asking for reassurance, stop requesting a timeline, and stop re-litigating the argument. A calmer environment is not a concession; it is the condition that makes any future conversation possible. Do less, and make the less you do reliable.

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List three things you did in the last day that added pressure. Pick one to stop for 72 hours.

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