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Situation Debrief
Own your part, not the whole thing
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Owning your part is precise, not total. Taking the blame for everything is just another way of staying the center of the story. Name the specific thing you did, change that one thing, and leave the rest. Accountability is a behavior, not a performance of guilt.
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Write the single sentence that describes your part in a recent conflict. No more than one sentence.
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